Start with what you love
When it comes to styling your home, start with what you love. Your instincts are right. I hear so many people say that they love a style but it can't be incorporated into their home. I beg to differ. Styles and textures mix to create your own unique style. You do not need to stick with one distinct look. That's what is great about today design, anything goes. Don't be afraid to create a home that is a unique expression of you. Be bold. Be different. Find things that not just anyone will incorporate into their home.
Start with that one item that you really like and build around that, whether it is a piece of furniture, art work or a plant. Add accessories with similar content, color, or texture. Take your time with this process. Be sure to find the things you really like without compromising. Before you know it, you have a cohesive look that is uniquely you.
Color
Adding color into your space can easily be done. Generally, the way I use color is to repeat it at least three times in a space. I am a color lover and enjoy adding pops to any space. The trick is placement of the color, making your eye dance around the room to take it all in. Plus, different textures are important. Although, there is something striking about adding a stand alone bold colorful piece into your space.